Paul’s prayer for the Philippian believers, and thus for all believers of every time and every place, is that our love will abound, or grow more and more, between the borders of truth and understanding. This kind of love is not careless or sentimental. It is thoughtful, guided, and steady. When love grows in that way, it helps us grasp or discern what is best in every relationship. We begin to see not just what is loud or immediate, but what is truly “excellent.” Paul concludes in Philippians 1:10 that this kind of growing love will lead us to “be pure and blameless for the day of Christ.” It is a remarkable idea that love, when shaped by truth and understanding, becomes a kind of compass for daily living. Left to myself, I tend to drift toward what is convenient rather than what is best, which may explain why my better intentions sometimes arrive a few minutes late.
There are two characteristics that result when love flows within those boundaries. The first is the Greek word “eilikrineis,” translated as pure, but literally meaning “judged by the sun.” As Gromacki explains, “Ancient jars and vases were examined for disguised cracks by holding them up against the rays of the sun.” In that light, hidden flaws were revealed. Some merchants filled cracks with wax and painted over them to deceive buyers. Our English word “sincere” comes from a Latin term meaning “without wax.” That image has a way of staying with me. I would prefer to present a polished version of myself, carefully edited and slightly improved, but sunlight has a way of telling the truth. The second trait is “aproskopoi,” meaning blameless. After being examined in the light, what remains should not cause others to stumble. In real relationships, our cracks eventually show. Oddly enough, it is often in admitting them that relationships grow stronger.
The New Testament brings this into clear focus through Jesus Christ. He is the perfect example of a pure and blameless life. As Peter wrote, “He committed no sin, neither was deceit found in his mouth” (1 Peter 2:22). What is striking is that the longer the disciples followed Him, the more His perfection became evident. That is not usually how it works with the rest of us. Paul’s phrase “for the day of Christ” carries the sense of movement toward that day, not merely waiting for it. It is a steady progress rather than instant arrival. As Paul writes elsewhere, “And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ” (Philippians 1:6). Through Him, love continues to grow, motives are refined, and lives are shaped in a direction that is both honest and hopeful.
